Author: JoBarker

I'm a artist who lives in South Manchester , I live with my Parents My blogs are about my life experiences ,options and things I need to get of my chest ,I have Aspurgers it is part of who I'am,I'am a Status Quo fan ,I love dogs my favorite breed in Cavalier king Charles spaniel ,I love doing exercise and my artworks .

Ravenclaw Harmonie Lady

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In school like Harmonie I read books alot , mostly because I had times sitting alone .

In my teens adulthood I’d always give people little bits of knowledge from reading books and watching documentrys.

I see myself as a Ravenclaw but I have bits from 3 of the houses,

Loyalty from huffulpuff

Brave Griffindour

Wanting to learn Ravenclaw

Nothing from sythrine as I tend to stay away from negatives and ignore nasty people, I am powered by love and stay at peace , I won’t judge people I’m nice to everyone as I believe in treating others as you like to be treated yourself.

Brave comes from going through so much bad stuff in my teens college work ect ( being bullied and abused by teachers as well) .Being constantly rejected by men , rejected by people trying to make friends with them. That was my past!!

Now I just feel I have nothing to lose , if I like someone I tell them , if people don’t like me I ignore them simples.

Your past shapes you in your future ,sometimes for good sometimes for bad , depending on how strong you are ( not physically) , this strength is your soul and spirit .

Unisex loos _ dreadful the world has gone mad 😱🚻

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Yesturday I had the terrible shock of finding the female loos in a place I go to alot, are now Unisex mixed gender loos.

I’am totally against this , I think both men and women deserve privacy , especially in loos.

We should not share loos its very uncomfortable, and may cause more Rape cases and such….THIS IS THE REALITY!

There are only two genders in this world Male and female , we should hace separate loos for privecy .

If you saw a strange man with his penis out , youll freak out , or if older lady have a heartattack.

It just will not work , I don’t want to pee with men its embarrassing .

Also as I said befour , it may cause more Rape / sex cases , becouse if a women was alone in a loo with a sexpest , it will be dangous.(I know not all men are like this , but reality is they are out there).

Our loos should stay seprate male and Female not Unisex …

Love no law agaist

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Social worker friend who Iam in love with, He cares for people serverly disabled and he also has ADHD. I have Asburgers and know my own mind ect, his support worker friend said I cannot have a relashionship with him becouse he is a care worker ( NOT FOR ME AS I DO NOT NEED A CARE WORKER) she said its against the law for me and him to be a couple if ever we wanted to be? Is this true??

Also he is 100% my soulmate as I have a special bond and chesmisty with him, Since I met him the empty missing piece of my soul has filled/healed.

What she said hounestly angered and upset me , I have beeb mulling over it all week , also going through law with fine tooth comb, asking officals in Mancap, court, and head goverment minster of social workers.

I’m not easly angered as I’m a calm careing person .

I know I dont trust her , to be hounest my family and I dont trust care social workers (except my friend Chris).

Love has not got a law and if she does keep me and him apart, you will see Romeo juliet story in the news where I die coz im jept away from most importent man in my life .

The letter would say I love chris you tried to keep us apart ( ) my blood is on your hands!

Anyway so dar its not going romeo juliet way( thank god) Like I said I’ve been researchibg this with a fine tooth comb .

Its only illiagal if he is my care worker and I’m his client.

Which Iam not! Iam his friend , I’d gladly go to court or prison for loving him Im so angery and upset by what she said , even though I know she is wrong.

I need to relax and clear my mind as I do nit like anger ( as Yoda is right).

Tears For The Fallen

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Tears for the fallen , they fought for our country ,

Put their lives on the line , they died for us in shells raining and drowned in mud .

Tears for the fallen brave were they as they faced a battle in difficult times.

Tears for the fallen poppys grow when men still lie , forever asleep time passses them by.

In the end war still goes on , our country is over run , not by a army , by people taking advantage.

In the end they lost their lives for a country taken from under us, these brave men died for us , the government gave us away , In the end all was lost Soliders cry as they see the living try to be British and strong.

In the end we lost all ,

( Knock Me Down With A Feather )World Cup Wimps

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I have been watching The World Cup . Honestly I’ve never seen so much men fall over , over nothing.

The Footballers “So called men” should be ashamed to call themselves men.

They’ve been so wimpy acting like cry babies , shameful exscuses of men.

Last night I watch Portugal Vs Iran and there was more falling down and crying then there was football!

Its like a bowling ball knocking skittles down in a alley along the whole football pitch.

These are not real men , they are wimps ,cowards ,cry , babies .

You could kock them down with a feather , whatever happened to real manly men ugh….well you get my point anyhow …footballers are cry babies and NOT MEN AND I WOULDENT DATE ANY OFF THEM THEY ATE SHAMEFUL!

I Really Miss My Toby Fluff

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I miss my dog so much , Toby was a Caviler King Charles Spaniel my favorite breed of dog.

He was my Toby fluff becouse he was fluffy so I called Him Toby fluff or fluffy fluff. He was a gentle dog who liked sleeping playing with his favroite ball.

He loved golf balls he could sniff them out like a pig of truffles.It hurts I notice he is no longer there ,why did he have to get ill?

He was intellegent to he could watch tv , and with his paw he would tap you if he wanted his dinner or to play.

I miss the feel of his silky soft fur his gentle licks and his bright eyes, his littile barks his waggy tails and his waggy bum he put models to shame becouse that dog could wiggle his bum better then any model.

Its so difficult … If Only I coukd have him back 😢😭😭💔💔💔

Struggles Of A Artist

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Being a Artist is not as easy as it seems , If your like me not Rich , its difficult.

I noticed Artist born into money make money as they have that behind them.

If your like me poor and living with patents , having to put your art on ebay at low prices , its a struggle.It s upsetting at times I work hard and put alot of love in to my work and in return I get bugger all, my mum sold sme of my bird paintings for 1pound, !!

My ebay vixen252 Joanna Barker if you fancy a look at my work, people want something for nothing these days , its putting people out of pocket , If I dident live with my Parents I’d be on baked beans on toast everday thats the reality.

I’m not ashamed to admit anything I’m poor I’m a struggleing artist I’m down to earth.

Most of my clothes are 2nd hand charity shop but so what ! Most of my jewllery is costume Ive never owned gold!

I’d like more money just so I don’t worry about my bank balance, but I don’t want to be a billioner I have no need for cars of mansions.

To Be Judged All your Life , Makes you wonder?

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At age 11 I was diagnosed with Asburgers sydrome. I was quite slow with School subjects at primery school. Apart from Art,most playtimes I sat on a cold step watching other kids play.

Secondery School I was top of my class , I was rubbish at Math and Home ect….I stood at a wall alone.

College I did well but was stressed ….I was alone alot .

My life in a nutshell , I always tried to socialize and was never nasty or mean to people …I dont belive in being nasty, but they were always nasty to me.

Why are people like this , there is so much evil in the world , why judge people why not just try to except each other.

I’am now in my mid early 30s I joined a art group october 2015 and people finally except me for me , my closest friend is Chris who I love and hope one day he will be my partner, never met anyone as nice as him befour.

But I still think about things like messages boards chatrooms( I used them when I was younger) .I think why are there people bullying and being nasty to others over social ,media being nasty to complete strangers.WHY??

Theres no need for it , I myself find these bullys childish and they may do it becouse they are insecure and taking there problams out on others.

We all have problems we are human after all , but don’t take it out on others .